Category Archives: libido

Why I Love Weird Porn

Posted on April 23, 2012 by noahbrand

A note: as a courtesy, most of the esoteric terminology in this article will not be clarified with links. Google is your friend, but be aware that you’re rolling the dice; some of these things will be disturbing or upsetting … Continue reading →

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Libidos, Assumptions, and Miscommunication

Posted on January 6, 2012 by noahbrand

So I was reading this lovely Charlie Glickman piece about listening to Robert Jensen give a talk about how porn is a guy thing that’s bad for men, and how his own reaction to much of it was utter WTF. … Continue reading →

Posted in gender performativity, intersectionality, libido, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, pornography, relationships, sexuality, Uncategorized | Tagged , , | 91 Comments

Miscellaneous Cool Links

Posted on August 25, 2011 by ozymandias

1) Dar Williams’s When I Was A Boy is one of the most powerful anti-gender-roles songs I’ve ever heard– and it includes a bonus criticism of femmephobia: And so I tell the man I’m with about the other life I … Continue reading →

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I Swear I’m Not Just Trying To Make This Blog About Sex

Posted on August 11, 2011 by noahbrand

No, seriously, I swear. I know that there are a lot of issues facing men today that are very serious and important and are located places other than our trousers. But COME THE FUCK ON. That charming apparatus is called … Continue reading →

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Cock Tales: A Call For Submissions

Posted on August 4, 2011 by noahbrand

A very cool lady named Kimberly, a fan of our little blog, has contacted us with a proposal so fun it has little anime-sparklies dancing in my eyes: The philosophy behind Cock Tales is simple. The artistic world is filled … Continue reading →

Posted in body image, libido, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, penis, relationships, reproduction | Tagged , , , | 39 Comments

Masturbation’s Okay If You Don’t Get Into It

Posted on July 30, 2011 by noahbrand

In my usual drunken wanderings through links my friends post, I was alerted to this article on thefrisky.com about a guy considering buying a Fleshlight. (Second link visibly NSFW.) Now, I’ll be clear, I don’t actually know the article’s author, … Continue reading →

Posted in emotion, libido, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz | Tagged , , | 31 Comments

Wait, how can the missionary position be forceful?

Posted on July 18, 2011 by aliarasthedaydreamer

TW here for graphic description of (consensual) violent sex. Relatedly, this post is not exactly SFW. So, on the Julian Assange case. I keep seeing people on the internet scoffing at the idea that he’s accused of using force on … Continue reading →

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Oh, Naomi Wolf

Posted on July 10, 2011 by noahbrand

The post title is seriously the only reaction I can muster to Naomi Wolf’s recent article “Is pornography driving men crazy?” Just “Oh, honey.” I mean, what else is there to say? Okay, you could do a thorough analysis of … Continue reading →

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Semi-Open Thread: Gettin’ Laid

Posted on July 5, 2011 by aliarasthedaydreamer

In a lot of discussions in the comments of late, things have turned to the topic of gettin’ laid. There are some nasty memes about both genders — men are just looking for a warm hole to stick it in, … Continue reading →

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Marvelous post on sexual submissiveness

Posted on July 2, 2011 by noahbrand

Clarisse Thorn makes a good point, as she is prone to doing. Don’t have a huge amount to add here; she makes a compelling argument and backs it up with good links. Short version: the perception that “women are all … Continue reading →

Posted in blog responses, gender identity, libido, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz | Tagged , | 13 Comments