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Tag Archives: body image
Reddit Loves the Body Hate
TW for body policing and hat tip to Kate. Brought to us courtesy of the Funny reddit, we have an alleged “joke” that has many unique traits, such as not being remotely funny, unless you happen to be amused by … Continue reading
Posted in body image, health, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz
Tagged body image, masculinity, muscles, reddit
29 Comments
The Masculinization of Femme Stuff
(Hat tip to dreamwaffles.) Autostraddle and Ms. Blog have the news about an interesting new advertising sins and the latest mutation of femmephobia. I mean, kind of news. It’s from, erm, two months ago. Ozy is known for many things, but … Continue reading
Posted in advertising sins, femmephobia, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz
Tagged bacon, body image, femmephobia, masculinity, success myth
65 Comments
The Before Body
(Hat tip to Sociological Images.) Below the cut, we have a fascinating video in which a man becomes both the “before” and the “after” body for a weight-loss, muscle-gain ad– within only a few hours. To get the after body, he … Continue reading
Posted in body image, health, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz
Tagged body image, magazines, photoshop, sociological images
78 Comments
Pictures of Real Penises, Breasts
(Trans people, I am totally ignoring y’all for the purposes of this post. Sorry. But the way gender dysphoria makes people dislike their bodies is, while related, different enough that it really deserves its own post.) The average person has … Continue reading
Posted in body image, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, penis
Tagged body image, breast, penis, real bodies
70 Comments
The Beauty Myth And The Success Myth: Ozy’s Law In Action
Over Thanksgiving weekend, I was talking with my brother, and we were bemoaning something I’ve bemoaned with other men on many occasions: the bloody impossibility of convincing the women we love that they’re beautiful. Those with a woman that they … Continue reading
Twilight, Bieber, and Valentino
There is a subset of the female gaze that causes much kerfluffle amongst a lot of guys, and it tends to occur in an incredibly predictable pattern. Now, for purposes of this post, we will be assuming that female desire … Continue reading
Big Fellas And Fashion
Courtesy of ocelot in the open thread, check out this article in New York Magazine about the nonexistence of plus-size male models in fashion. Note phrasing: not dearth, not paucity, not lack of exposure, nonexistence. (As with so much else … Continue reading
Posted in body image, fashion, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz
Tagged body image, myth of men not being hot
45 Comments
Halloween: Dan Savage Has Points, Misses Points
So I read Dan Savage’s article on Halloween, and I’ve been ruminating on it, particularly in light of my previous criticism of “sexy” Halloween costumes. The short version of Dan’s piece is that we should embrace sexy costumes, because Halloween … Continue reading
Posted in body image, fashion, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz
Tagged body image, halloween, myth of men not being hot
23 Comments
Suits, Part One: Suit As Costume
In Western culture, the men’s suit is tied in with masculinity in a variety of ways. This is the first part of a planned three-part series teasing out some of the weird issues around suits and the wearing thereof.
Posted in employment, fashion, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz
Tagged body image, clothes, gender performance, masculinity, suits
39 Comments
Height
Sometimes I feel like height, physical height, is the elephant in the room when it comes to hegemonic masculinity. Everyone knows it’s a giant friggin’ deal, but nobody wants to talk about it, because, as the inimitable Greta Christina pointed … Continue reading
Posted in body image, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz
Tagged body image, height, masculinity, penis size
113 Comments