Tag Archives: depression

The Sandwich Means I Love You

A while ago, Captain Awkward wrote this following post about sandwiches, and love, and boundaries, and things. You should go read it. It is good post. The way you set boundaries around this is to accept what’s offered with grace and gratitude. … Continue reading

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The Swinging Blades Theory

Pretty frequently in the United States, we get incidents like this, where a young father died of an infected tooth, for no other reason than not having health coverage. In response, we get smug assholery like this, saying (among other … Continue reading

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Open Thread: Depression Part Five: What The Hell?

Women attempt suicide more than men, but men are more likely to succeed. The primary reason for this is the difference in the methods used. Men tend to use typically masculine methods of committing suicide, such as hanging or guns, … Continue reading

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Depression Part Four: Male-Pattern Depression

The core paradox of men and depression is this: women are more likely to be depressed; men are more likely to kill themselves. This makes literally no sense. Unless one is assuming a giant epidemic of men who wake up … Continue reading

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Depression Part Three: Social Support

(Author’s Note: Much of the material for this post and subsequent posts in this series comes from this document on men’s mental health problems.) Men are currently undergoing a social support crisis. “Social capital” is the social connectedness of a particular person– … Continue reading

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Depression Part Two: Providing Emotional Support To Men Who Are Depressed

(Note: Through this piece, I referenced the depressed person as “a man” and “he,” because this is part of a series about men with depression. Much of my advice, however, applies to depressed people of all genders.) The most important … Continue reading

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Depression Part One: Unemployment, Men and Suicide

Recently, I came across this very interesting study about suicide rates as they relate to unemployment. Since I basically read everything with my Masculism Goggles on now (seriously, I do, it’s terrible), I happened to notice a few interesting statistics. A … Continue reading

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