Tag Archives: women

Rick Santorum Is Full Of Santorum

Posted on January 23, 2012 by noahbrand

In his latest attempt to double down on his right-wing-religious-asshole bet, Rick Santorum has clarified his position on abortion in cases of rape: rape’s bad, but if you get pregnant from it, hey, free baby! Who’d want to turn that … Continue reading →

Posted in noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, rape, rape culture | Tagged politics, rape, violence, women | 62 Comments

Achievement Unlocked: Human Woman

Posted on December 16, 2011 by noahbrand

I’ve been feeling a bit low just lately, what with it getting dark at 4:30 in the afternoon. It’s the kind of lifestyle in the kind of latitude where you realize that it’s entirely possible that you became a vampire … Continue reading →

Posted in emotion, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, relationships, sexuality | Tagged emotions, masculinity, misandry, misogyny, sex objects, women | 47 Comments

Strictly Moderated: What I Mean When I Talk About Rape Culture, Part Two

Posted on August 1, 2011 by ozymandias

Toxic Masculinity Thomas at Yes Means Yes quotes from a paper by Lisak, the groundbreaking rape researcher, about the characteristics of male rapists (unfortunately, I am unaware of similar studies about female rapists): “more angry at women, more motivated by the need to … Continue reading →

Posted in femmephobia, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, rape culture | Tagged boundaries, femmephobia, gender policing, gift of fear, masculinity, patriarchy, rape, rape apologism, rape culture, women | 82 Comments

Advertising Sins: Summer’s Eve

Posted on July 22, 2011 by noahbrand

Tireless commenter typhonblue suggested someone do a post on this ad for the Summer’s Eve line of vaginal cleansers: Shit, how can I resist a big, slow-moving target like that?

Posted in advertising sins, body image, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz | Tagged body image, gender roles, myth of men not being hot, sexism, women | 40 Comments

Horrifying story about the rape of men

Posted on July 18, 2011 by ozymandias

Trigger warning for wartime rape. The Guardian has a horrific story about the underreporting of rape in African wartime conflicts, in which it is endemic, and the complete lack of support for male survivors. It is for this reason that … Continue reading →

Posted in noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, rape, rape culture | Tagged africa, family, gender egalitarianism, gender roles, masculinity, misandry, rape, rape in africa, sexual assault, women | 23 Comments

A Story about the Invisibility of Male Rape

Posted on July 1, 2011 by Shora

Hello all. I thought about doing a nice introductory first post about me and my views and what I’m all about, but I think I’m still kind of figuring that stuff out and besides, I think it’s a little late … Continue reading →

Posted in issues, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, rape, rape culture, sexism | Tagged jaclyn friedman, men, rape, sexual assault, statistics, women | 123 Comments

On Libido, part two

Posted on June 22, 2011 by noahbrand

[Full disclosure: I have published portions of this post elsewhere while researching libidos for a different project.] Having nattered on a bit about cultural conceptions of libido and how it affects men, I wanted to go a little deeper into … Continue reading →

Posted in issues, libido, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz | Tagged cosmo, genital mutilation, misogyny, religion, sex, women | 18 Comments

On Libido, part 1

Posted on June 20, 2011 by noahbrand

I recently came across an interesting post about a very interesting study concerning high-libido women. It was striking for me how much it resonated with my own experiences as a high-libido man, and very revealing in how it differed. The … Continue reading →

Posted in issues, libido, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz | Tagged gender roles, masculinity, polyamory, privilege, sex, slut-shaming, women | 18 Comments

Saying Hello

Posted on June 20, 2011 by 2020

This is my introductory post for nswatm just my way of saying hello and trying to lay down some of my beliefs regarding gender, feminism, men’s issues that kind of thing. This is by no means my final definitive take on … Continue reading →

Posted in introductions, issues, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz | Tagged feminism, gender, liberation, life without limits, marc2020, men, women | Leave a comment

Who Cares About Men’s Rights?

Posted on June 17, 2011 by ozymandias

I do. I care about every boy that was ever called a fag or a pussy or a sissy for being emotional, or sensitive, or unathletic, or just not manly enough. I care about the boys who are afraid they’ll lose their … Continue reading →