Tag Archives: slut-shaming

What Men Like In Bed

Posted on February 7, 2012 by ozymandias

Noah posted yesterday on hegemonic heterosexuality and the Cult of Shitty Relationships. In this post I’d like to pick out one thread of it to discuss. Specifically, the archetypical, hegemonic idea of what men want in bed. I was prompted … Continue reading →

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Libidos, Assumptions, and Miscommunication

Posted on January 6, 2012 by noahbrand

So I was reading this lovely Charlie Glickman piece about listening to Robert Jensen give a talk about how porn is a guy thing that’s bad for men, and how his own reaction to much of it was utter WTF. … Continue reading →

Posted in gender performativity, intersectionality, libido, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, pornography, relationships, sexuality, Uncategorized | Tagged , , | 91 Comments

A Christian Writes About Sexual Damage

Posted on September 29, 2011 by noahbrand

Trigger warning for sexual mutilation and rape. Linksurfing around, I came across this remarkable and moving little memoir about growing up in  a household where the parents followed the teachings of a particularly popular fundamentalist guru with a real fixation … Continue reading →

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Cock Tales: A Call For Submissions

Posted on August 4, 2011 by noahbrand

A very cool lady named Kimberly, a fan of our little blog, has contacted us with a proposal so fun it has little anime-sparklies dancing in my eyes: The philosophy behind Cock Tales is simple. The artistic world is filled … Continue reading →

Posted in body image, libido, noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz, penis, relationships, reproduction | Tagged , , , | 39 Comments

Strictly Moderated: What I Mean When I Talk About Rape Culture, Part 1

Posted on July 30, 2011 by ozymandias

Note: This thread is not the thread to argue about the reality of rape culture, the accuracy of rape statistics, etc. While those are interesting discussions to have, I would prefer for this thread to be a discussion of the major cultural … Continue reading →

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On Libido, part 1

Posted on June 20, 2011 by noahbrand

I recently came across an interesting post about a very interesting study concerning high-libido women. It was striking for me how much it resonated with my own experiences as a high-libido man, and very revealing in how it differed. The … Continue reading →

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